Meaningful Relationships - Survive Your Partner's Affair

Have you ever considered what is meant by ?meaningful relationship?? This is a trendy term now being used for affairs. Cheaters are leaving their spouses like you for meaningful relationships. Like many of the terms used today, this one sounds nice, but lacks any substance when it comes to ?what does it mean??. The way it is often used it in reference to the cheater?s relationship. They act as if this new relationship has added a sense of purpose to their lives. They claim that they know have direction and significance due to this relationship.

They are making the mistake of confusing intensity for intimacy. Affairs are very stimulating. They arouse many feelings in terms of fear, attraction, shame, etc. Typically the excitement is kept at a high level in order to drown out the unpleasant feelings of fear, shame, and guilt. Mixing up intimacy and intensity creates some major headaches. Because the enjoyable emotions have to be kept at a high level, the cheater mistakes that for having ?meaning?. The lover has to keep things in high gear in order to make things work.

What the affair really means is that they do not honor their commitments, they want excitement over honor, their promises mean nothing, and that they can not face the reality that their new sexual toy is ruining them and their reputation. By calling it a ?meaningful relationship?, they are desperately trying to make it acceptable. It is easier to say that they want a meaningful relationship than to say that they want to go slut around with their lover.

Best Regards,

Jeffrey Murrah

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